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So, not sex and not foreplay. For example, TMI warning, also self-harm is mentioned.

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I'm not sexually attracted to the people I seek it from. Sometimes I'm repulsed by the idea of having contact with the person Even when I'm favorable towards the idea I'd never do anything about it - it won't happen unless they actively make it happen. They say being asexual can enhance their play or dynamic because sex is not involved. And it is more about the power dynamic. I'm thinking that for me, it must be related. I'm non sexual bdsm mulling over how it might be related though. It's certainly all about the power dynamic. I have a few friends who are mistresses and what they do depends on the submissive.

At least my point of view. But what seems odd is that some people are in fact in a bdsm type of relationships just that the roles and labels are not used. At least to me. Well, people aren't always very self-aware, and info about BDSM has to be sought out. I think most people see it as strictly sexual in nature too.

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I know in one of my relationships We definitely have a "thing" going but it definitely doesn't involve anything more sexual than me being nude occasionally and won't lead to sex or a relationship and isn't meant to. It's a head-scratcher for me. It's like friends with benefits but without benefits. I'm submissive and I've always enjoyed being given clear directions and being told exactly what to do, no matter the type of situation. It just kind of calms me down and enables me to focus and function better. I haven't had many relationships, but I know from experiences I had before realizing my asexuality and some after that I enjoy being bitten, embarrassed humiliated, but not to extremesgiven directions, bondage, hot wax, etc.

Most of my "play", "scenes", or whatever you'd like to call it, are solo. I've considered trying to find a partner or people to engage in these acts with but I don't really like another person being present. I like the idea of it, as ideally it would be great to have a dominant to carry out said actions, but the actuality of another person being present and experiencing the situation turns me off, so to speak. The acts can be sexual, but only ever if it's solo. Certain acts with another person can lead to arousal, but it's never directed towards the person, only the act itself.

It wouldn't matter who was doing it. Other things like hot wax and directions are just sensual pleasure or calming and grounding. So being submissive I do enjoy bdsm and being in certain positions in a non-sexual manner, but in some cases it also depends who non sexual bdsm.

Being a submissive is not just being a door mate. But it is power exchange.

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Knowing you are making someone else happy and finding enjoyment in your submission. Having it be equal and a two way street. And after a scene being cared for and after care. Non sexual bdsm about it late. And knowing you both enjoy scene or the dynamic. BDSM does not have to sexually. Know some asexually and dom think taking sex out of the equation lets the focus more on the power dynamic and scene.

Power is not exciting for me. I don't want to follow anyone's orders and I don't want to have power over anyone else. I think being the dominant would be very rewarding if someone put their entire love and trust in you I am probably quite submissive I am not into pain at all though, or being told what to do as a power thing rather than because it is in my best interest. Yeah so guidance and petting in exchange for trust, loyalty, and whatever else I could give. It would be more about the emotional intimacy for me, were I to ever try such a thing. The feelings of being protected and cared for and loved deeply would be more important to me.

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